The blog is a good way to see how it is going "on the ground", from someone who has been part of the effort since before the earthquake.
Why not just head over to the nearest WalMart, fill a box with even just a few of these items, and ship them to the address. There is just so much need, even in this small corner of the tragedy. Even a few bucks will help Licia keep the kids eating and provide at least a small comfort. Maybe you can throw in a couple of board books or a toy or two.
Here's the List and the address of a friend of hers that has a warehouse and will ship the items:
Debbie Woodward 1500 Jackson Street NE Minneapolis, MN 55413
Current needs list
infant formulapowdered milk
 ensure milk
 oil
 other staples
 canned meat
 canned vegetables
 canned beans
 canned tomato products
 juice mixes
 triple antibiotic oint
 vitamins
 tylenol
 ibuprofen
 antibiotics
 hydrocortizone cream
 anti-fungal cream
 oral hypoglycemics – metformin, glyburide
 seizure meds  – pheno
 gauze
 gloves
 kerlex, cling
 IV fluids
 angiocaths
 casting materials
 cast saw
 surgical blades
 sutures – all kinds
 syringes
 tents
 tarps
 mattresses
 sheets
 pillows
 hygiene items
 laundry soap
 disinfectant
 copy paper
 bug spray
 garden seeds – corn, beans (lima, black, etc), watermelon, tomato, eggplant
 garden tools – hoe, machete, pick-ax, sickle (digo)
 buckets
 flashlights
 rechargeable lanterns
 batteries
 dishes
 cups
 spoons
 cooking pots
 nails – 3″, 4″, tin
 wire
 paint
 doors
 boards – 2×4, 1×4
 plywood
 shovels
 hammers
 wheelbarrows